Wednesday, March 23, 2011

Day three- DELETE HIM!

DELETE HIM ON FACEBOOK!

ok.  so maybe I didn't exactly delete him.  maybe he deleted me.  he actually deleted all of my friends and family on there.  When my boss realized he had been deleted he came up to me and said "man that guy had issues".  Yes....yes he did.  Since when cant we be friends on facebook? since when is it wrong to look at his page?

but i realized then, you know we all do the same thing. We facebook stalk.  You want to see whats going on in his life.  You want to see who hes talking to.  It kills you throughout the day to know.  So you look.  Over. and over. and over.  and there is nothing new.  But you keep looking.  and then you see something.  something you DIDN'T want to see.  something that makes you cry. and break down.  You don't need that.  A friend told me today "you have to stop looking".  and that was insanely hard.  and I continued to look.  and then one time, when I looked...it said "no new posts." and I realized.....He deleted me.  He was over it before I was.  It would have been so much better if i deleted him first.  If he knew I was done.  I didn't want to look at his page anymore.  Didn't want to see his status's about his day. Didn't want to see his new "in a relationship" posts.  Didn't want to see his pictures. 

Wouldn't that be nice though? to be able to have a delete button in life? Delete his memories.  Delete his voice.  Delete the picture I have of him in my head

But girls.....Life doesnt have that delete button.  BUT FACEBOOK DOES.  Delete him....before he deletes you.  That way....even if you WANT to look at his page.  you can't.  you have no choice but to move on....without him in your world...or at least your virtual world.

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